Showing posts with label assistance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label assistance. Show all posts

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Poor Does Not Define A Person, Actions Do

Below is a quote from a former poor person. In an unpublished autobiographical manuscript that I discovered written by my father who recently passed away, I found this. My father grew up as a child in a very impoverished family, but through ongoing pursuit of education and hard work he ultimately became a distinguished professor at a major Big Ten university:

"I actually considered my inheritance, in the way of physical and intangible assets to come not just from my ancestors, but from benefactors that included relatives, intimate friends and compari who treated us D'Angelo children as kin and were regarded as such by us. It also includes charitable friends and neighbors, private agencies, schools and state and local agencies indispensable for the poor who seek redemption. Without the kind help of these living entities life would have been extremely difficult for us. This outside assistance was not an infrequent handout, but was often repeated graciously and extended, but never fully acknowledged for what it was. Our parents depended on it even if they wouldn't admit it to themselves or to the rest of us. The benefits we received through their interventions were material and physical in the form of food, fuel, clothing, money and experiential opportunities that enriched our lives. Just as important in the list of benefits to us were real but intangible things like love, attention, acceptance, warm relations and recognition of our worth. Whatever deficiencies or incapacity's our parents possessed in providing these refinements were supplemented by many benefactors that I acknowledge with gratitude."

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Why Should We Care About Other People? (Part 1)


Why should we care about other people? While pondering that question recently many thoughts came to mind and stirred my emotions and intellect.

Why should we care for other people?
That is what we should do as the human species!!!

Karma: what goes around comes around. If you were in a situation where you needed help and no one cared, you would be furious that no one was there for you.

Caring about others makes us happy and content. It is amazing what a little “peace on earth, good will towards men” spirit does to people in December.

Some people have no one else to care about them. Orphans, or the little old lady down the street whose children ignore her. The homeless schizophrenic who can’t afford his medications and now he's on the streets. Who else is going to help them?

The welfare of those countless others affects you, too. When lots of people are out of work, they don't have money to spend on products and services from the businesses which employ your immediate friends and family.

When kids don't have educational and employment opportunities; when adults can't get a job and wind up on the streets, they are far more likely to get involved in criminal activity just to survive; which affects everyone else.

Did you know it costs about the same amount of money to have someone in prison for a year as it does to send them to college for a year?

We may never know that the kid we take the time to help may turn out to be the scientist whose work finds the cure to cancer, or autism, or Alzheimer’s disease or comes up with the secret to an affordable car that gets 100 miles per gallon.

In closing, let's take a moment to think about those in need. The next time someone turns to you for help, please take time to think about how your response affects the person asking for help and how it may ultimately affect you and your community.